Ustadha Shazia Ahmad

September 28, 2024 2 mins

Is It Haram for a Woman Who Doesn’t Wear a Hijab to Brush Her Hair?

Answered by Ustadha Shazia Ahmad Question Would it make a difference if she brushed her hair with the brush that she bought to style her hair when going out? Answer Thank you for your question.  It is not unlawful for a woman to brush her hair if she goes out without a hijab, or to […]
September 28, 2024 3 mins

Will I Go to Hell for Desiring Multiple Husbands in Paradise?

Answered by Ustadha Shazia Ahmad Question I am a woman, and my desire for men is above average. I don’t act upon these desires due to the fear of Allah; I don’t indulge in anything haram, zina, chatting, or texting. I restrain myself in this worldly life. I read a verse that Allah will grant […]
September 28, 2024 4 mins

Is It Wrong to Pray Day and Night to Get My Boyfriend Back?

Answered by Ustadha Shazia Ahmad Question I really need help. My ex-boyfriend told me he doesn’t love me anymore and he is better off without me. He never wants to come back to me, and he wants nothing to do with me. Yet I keep finding myself making 20 rak‘as extra for him every day. […]
September 28, 2024 5 mins

Should I Listen to My Father or Mother When They Tell Me to Do Opposite Things?

Answered by Ustadha Shazia Ahmad Question My father and mother get into a lot of arguments, mainly about their in-laws. Sometimes, my father would ask me to do something, and then my mother would ask me not to do it. Then my father would insist I do. This occurs in not-so-important matters, and also in […]
September 28, 2024 2 mins

Is It Disrespectful to Correct My Parents Even If They Are Wrong?

Answered by Ustadha Shazia Ahmad Question I’ve learned that my parents don’t like me to disagree with them, so I don’t. But sometimes my parents get something wrong, and when I try to correct them, they get offended. I then stay quiet. Is this considered disrespect if I don’t intend to offend them? Answer Thank […]
September 27, 2024 2 mins

Will a Boy Expose Me for Texting Him Inappropriate Things?

Answered by Ustadha Shazia Ahmad Question I am in university and I never committed a major sin except once, when I was 15. I ended up liking a guy, and then all of a sudden he started being weird in the way he texted me and said extremely inappropriate things. I said inappropriate things too, […]
September 27, 2024 4 mins

Can Parents Reject a Proposal Based on Culture or Because They Don’t Like Him?

Answered by Ustadha Shazia Ahmad Question Can parents reject a proposal from a pious man because they don’t like him and his family? He doesn’t have a university degree but is independent, working full-time, earns decently, and supports his parents as well. My parents think the families don’t match, but he and I are compatible, […]
September 27, 2024 3 mins

Can I Cut Off My Mother Due to the Distress of Her Eloping?

Answered by Ustadha Shazia Ahmad Question One day, I caught my mother on a video call with a Muslim man I didn’t know. When I asked her, she lied and claimed he presented as a woman wanting to be friends. When I confronted her, I expressed my concern and even warned the stranger to stay […]
September 25, 2024 2 mins

Is It Homosexuality If My Mentally Disabled Brother Shows Too Much Affection?

Answered by Ustadha Shazia Ahmad Question I have taken custody of my brother, who has a severe mental disorder, and taking care of him is very challenging. He is impulsive and dominant and fights everyone verbally. Then he becomes very ill to a point where it’s close to fatal for him. He also makes it […]
September 8, 2024 3 mins

How Can I Inspire My Husband to Pray and Read Quran? – Ustadha Shazia Ahma...

Answered by Ustadha Shazia Ahmad Question My husband sees me praying but doesn’t bother to join me or pray himself. He will only pray when I ask him, and it’s sad for me because it seems he prays only when I ask. He has bad habits and I’ve told him so many times. I constantly […]
September 1, 2024 3 mins

How Can I Help the Girl I Love to Control Her Sexual Urges? – Ustadha Shaz...

Answered by Ustadha Shazia Ahmad Question I met a lady online and we have been talking over voice call (for homework help) for over a year. Some months ago, I asked if she would marry me because we started to have feelings. Her mother knows about us but she told her not to let her […]
September 1, 2024 2 mins

How Can I Maintain My Distance from My Family without Being Sinful? – Usta...

Answered by Ustadha Shazia Ahmad Question How do I maintain ties with family members who backbite, believe in superstitions, do black magic, lie all the time, and create drama? Can I call them only during Eids, block them via social media, and keep my distance? Basically, I want to maintain my peace without being sinful. […]
September 1, 2024 2 mins

Is It Permissible to Look at Women’s Faces Adorned with Make-Up? – Ustad...

Answered by Ustadha Shazia Ahmad Question I read that looking at the face of a woman directly who doesn’t wear hijab without looking at `awra is permissible. But what if the face is adorned, is there any consensus of the scholars that looking at an “adorned” face (like with Kohl, makeup) in this case is […]
September 1, 2024 1 min

Can We Name a Person Abdul Nassar? – Ustadha Shazia Ahmad

Answered by Ustadha Shazia Ahmad Question Can We Name a Person Abdul Nassar? Answer I would avoid this name because I have not heard that Nassar is one of the names of Allah. Allah has mentioned Himself as Naseer in the verse below, but I have not heard the name Abdul-Naseer either. However, Nasir (ناصر), […]
September 1, 2024 1 min

Should I Donate My Less Modest Clothing? – Ustadha Shazia Ahmad

Answered by Ustadha Shazia Ahmad Question Alhamdulillah, I have started dressing more modestly. I now have a lot of clothes that I will not wear anymore. Most of them are pretty much new or in very good condition. Should I give these to charity? They are daytime clothes so people will likely wear them out. […]
September 1, 2024 1 min

Is It Haram to Watch a Woman Shake Hands with a Man? – Ustadha Shazia Ahma...

Answered by Ustadha Shazia Ahmad Question If a woman watches another woman without a hijab, touching and shaking hands with non-mahram men, am I sinning by watching her in a video? Would I bear the same sin as her? Answer Thank you for your question. May Allah reward you for being concerned about what your […]
September 1, 2024 3 mins

Should I Reduce My Mother’s Involvement in My Life Now That I’m Married? ...

Answered by Ustadha Shazia Ahmad Question My mother was diagnosed with bipolar and OCD long ago, and she is not compliant with treatment. I have even had depression myself because of the stress and trauma of dealing with her but was able to recover by the grace of Allah Most High. I can’t have a […]
September 1, 2024 3 mins

Was I Sinful to Show My Parents My Frustration? – Ustadha Shazia Ahmad

Answered by Ustadha Shazia Ahmad Question Is it haram to show frustration and respond back to your parents? My mother called me and I am an organized person who has a strict routine. So I got frustrated and a little angry because I was going to do other things and prepare for something but she […]
September 1, 2024 2 mins

What Should I Do If I Keep Seeing Coloured Discharge after My Ritual Bath? ̵...

Answered by Ustadha Shazia Ahmad Question I keep having problems whenever my period is about to end. Today is the sixth day of my period which is uncommon but during the evening I waited and I saw nothing so I did ghusl. After praying Dhuhr and `Asr, I checked to see if there was anything […]
September 1, 2024 3 mins

Is There Such a Thing as Islamic Dating? – Ustadha Shazia Ahmad

Answered by Ustadha Shazia Ahmad Question Is there such a thing as Islamic dating while there is ijma` from scholars that dating in our time isn’t good, to say the least? If a person was to date someone but doesn’t commit zina, would the least that can be said is that it’s Makrooh Tahriman to […]
September 1, 2024 5 mins

Should I Obey My Grandfather in Not Attending the Mosque? – Ustadha Shazia...

Answered by Ustadha Shazia Ahmad Question Many times my grandfather doesn’t let me go to the mosque due to baseless reasons like he doesn’t want me to go alone, even though I am 20 years old, or if there is rain, even light rain. He says that I should obey him and pray at home […]
September 1, 2024 3 mins

What Should I Do with a Husband I Hate? – Ustadha Shazia Ahmad

Answered by Ustadha Shazia Ahmad Question I was forced into marriage almost 2 years ago and it was nothing but a disaster with endless taunts and mean treatment from my in-laws and husband. I’ve been patient & increased my prayers but nothing changed. Although my husband seems less angry and mean, my heart is not […]
September 1, 2024 3 mins

Is It Right to Be Outgoing and Talkative As a Woman? – Ustadha Shazia Ahma...

Answered by Ustadha Shazia Ahmad Question Could you please give a detailed answer on how unmarried Muslim women should behave? I am a very outgoing and talkative girl. But I have come to have doubts if being outgoing and bubbly is considered having proper haya (modesty).  However, I love making others laugh and I love […]
September 1, 2024 2 mins

How Do I Deal with My Sexual Urges Since I Will Never Marry? – Ustadha Sha...

Answered by Ustadha Shazia Ahmad Question I am an 18-year-old boy who doesn’t want to ever get married. I have a very high libido that has made me turn to masturbation but I’m trying my best to leave that habit. The reasons I don’t want to marry are too detailed and complex to write here […]
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