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Ustadha Raidah Shah Idil
October 27, 2023
5 mins
Am I Committing Zina If My Wife Hasn’t Converted Yet?
Answered by Ustadha Raidah Shah Idil Question My wife is Hindu, and I am a convert to Islam. While she respects Islam, but she said she has no wish or […]
June 28, 2022
4 mins
Reader on Parents Rejecting Suitors for Marriage
In the name of Allah, the Most Merciful, the Most Compassionate Allah’s Messenger (peace and blessings be upon him) said: “When someone whose religion and character you are pleased with […]
June 2, 2022
3 mins
Reader on Women’s Ranks in the Hereafter
In the Name of Allah, the Merciful and Compassionate “The inhabitants of Paradise, on that Day, will be happily busy. They and their spouses, in shades, reclining on couches. They will […]
November 4, 2020
4 mins
Cultivating Patience Through Your Young Children
Trust in Allah Ustadha Raidah Shah Idil explores how having small children can build patience and help you get closer to Allah. When you are a mother to young children, […]
March 12, 2019
4 mins
Cultivating Gratitude in Our Lives – Ustadha Raidah Shah Idil
Ustadha Raidah Shah Idil explores ways for us to begin cultivating gratitude in our day-to-day lives. Allah Most High says in the Qur’an; “Verily, We sent (Messengers) to many nations […]
February 16, 2019
8 mins
How Do I Deal with My Abusive, Toxic, and Mentally Ill Mother
Answered by Ustadha Raidah Shah Idil Question I am a Muslim woman in her early twenties, living with my parents and I have always had trouble in my household. I […]
January 26, 2019
6 mins
I Struggle with Thoughts of Disbelief and Suicide
Answered by Ustadha Raidah Shah Idil Question I struggle with thoughts of disbelief and suicide. I have non-Muslim family members and feel so guilty when I spend time with them […]
November 30, 2018
6 mins
Am I Wrong for Not Sleeping with My Porn-Addicted Husband Until He Stops?
Answered by Ustadha Raidah Shah Idil Question I have been married for 21 years. My husband has been addicted to porn since before we got married. I did not know […]
August 4, 2018
3 mins
My Husband’s OCD Is Troubling Me. What Do I Do?
Answered by Ustadha Raidah Shah Idil Question My husband is obsessed with cleaning the floors of our apartment nearly every day. It is driving me nuts! He is obsessed with […]
May 29, 2018
4 mins
Can I Make Dua That Allah Sends My Boyfriend to Me as My Future Husband?
Answered by Ustadha Raidah Shah Idil Question I am a young girl who has had a relationship with a guy for over 2 years, but we broke up. I know […]
March 6, 2018
3 mins
My Parents Are Always Fighting. What Do I Do?
Answered by Ustadha Raidah Shah Idil Question I am so embarrassed by my parents’ fighting – it is so loud that even the neighbors can hear. They’ve been fighting for […]
February 15, 2018
3 mins
Is Marriage the Solution to My Masturbation Problem?
Answered by Ustadha Raidah Shah Idil Question Is marriage the solution to my masturbation problem? Answer I pray this finds you well. May Allah reward you for reaching out to […]
December 24, 2017
4 mins
My Wife Had an Affair. We Have a Young Daughter. What Do I Do?
Answered by Ustadha Raidah Shah Idil Question My wife had an affair with her co-worker, but she refuses to quit her job. When I check her phone location, she is […]
June 11, 2017
3 mins
My Parents Refuse My Choice of Spouse Because He Is Married. What Do I Do?
Answered by Ustadha Raidah Shah Idil Question I want to marry a married man with 3 children and have been trying for 4 years to persuade my family to give […]
May 4, 2017
2 mins
Can I Marry Without the Consent of My Parents?
Answered by Ustadha Raidah Shah Idil Question I met someone I would like to marry, but my parents do not approve because he does not have a Bachelor’s degree. I […]
April 19, 2017
1 min
Learn to Live – 04 – Interview with Ustadha Raidah Shah Idil
In this episode, Ustadha Raidah tells us about the reasons why she went on a path of seeking sacred knowledge. She talks about the benefits of moving to Amman, Jordan […]
February 1, 2017
3 mins
What Will Women Receive in Paradise? I Feel That They Are Left Out.
Answered by Ustadha Raidah Shah Idil Question I feel that women are not part of the Quranic narrative besides descriptions of “wide-eyed virgins” for male believers. What do women get […]
October 4, 2016
3 mins
How Should I Deal with the Lack of Intimacy in My Marriage?
Answered by Ustadha Raidah Shah Idil Question Since the conception of my child, my husband has refrained from any intimacy with me. It has gotten to a point where we […]
August 12, 2016
4 mins
What Should I Do with a Husband Who Can’t Satisfy Me Sexually?
Answered by Ustadha Raidah Shah Idil Question I have been married for a decade, my husband is physically unable to sexually satisfy me, and he does not want to seek […]
July 9, 2016
2 mins
How Do I Interact With My Sisters-In-Law?
Answered by Ustadha Raidah Shah Idil Question What does the Shari’a command us regarding the interaction between a man and his sisters-in-law? How does one manage oneself in situations where […]
May 7, 2016
4 mins
How Should I Deal with My Unfaithful Husband Who Watches Porn?
Answered by Ustadha Raidah Shah Idil Question I caught my husband with pornography on his computer, and suspect he is having an affair with a woman on a dating website. […]
April 25, 2016
2 mins
I Cannot Stop Drinking Alcohol and Committing Adultery. What Do I Do?
Answered by Ustadha Raidah Shah Idil Question I feel lost in my sins, and am desperately trying to crawl out from under them. I have committed a number of sins […]
March 19, 2016
3 mins
Is It Permissible for Me to Leave My Family Home and Live on My Own as an Unmarr...
Answered by Ustadha Raidah Shah Idil Question I have brothers who have moved out and have children. Whenever they come and visit my parents and me they behave in an […]
December 30, 2015
4 mins
How Can I Deal With My Difficult Mother in a Respectful Way?
Answered by Ustadha Raidah Shah Idil Question My mother has never been good at expressing her love towards me. Her behaviour has caused me a lot of pain. She forced […]
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