Can a Wife Use a Prostrate Massager on Her Husband?
Hanafi Fiqh
Answered by Mawlana Ilyas Patel
Question
Is it permissible in Islam for a wife to give her husband a prostate massage using her fingers such that he reaches orgasm? If yes/no, what is the basis, if you don’t mind me asking? Also, if it is allowed, are there any conditions?
Answer
In the Name of Allah, the Most Merciful and Compassionate.
I pray you are in good faith and health. Thank you for your question.
Esteemed jurists say if a husband cannot achieve orgasm with his wife after trying other conventional and alternative means, then it would be permissible to use a prostate massager if it is prescribed by a) a reliable and religious Muslim doctor and b) it is a standard practice among professional doctors.
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[Mawlana] Ilyas Patel
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Mawlana Ilyas Patel is a traditionally trained scholar who has studied in the UK, India, Pakistan, Syria, Jordan, and Turkey. He started his early education in the UK. He went on to complete the hifz of the Quran in India, then enrolled in an Islamic seminary in the UK, where he studied the secular and ‘Aalimiyya sciences. He then traveled to Karachi, Pakistan. He has been an Imam in Rep of Ireland for several years. He has taught hifz of the Quran, Tajwid, Fiqh, and many other Islamic sciences to children and adults onsite and online extensively in the UK and Ireland. He taught at a local Islamic seminary for 12 years in the UK, where he was a librarian and a teacher of Islamic sciences. He currently resides in the UK with his wife. His interest is a love of books and gardening.