Ustadha Shazia Ahmad

October 28, 2023 3 mins

How Can I Deal with an Extremely Abusive Father?

Answered by Ustadha Shazia Ahmad Question I have an extremely abusive father; he abused me emotionally and physically. I left home a year ago. I don’t want to keep any […]
October 28, 2023 2 mins

Should I Remarry My Abusive Ex-husband, Who I Believe Has Changed?

Answered by Ustadha Shazia Ahmad Question I was married six months to an abusive man who swore at me, bruised me in the face, threw things, yelled, swore at my […]
October 27, 2023 3 mins

I Engage in Homosexual Acts. How Can I Change?

Answered by Ustadha Shazia Ahmad Question I have homosexual feelings and have engaged in homosexual sex, however I deeply regret the act. I was sexually abused when I was 5 […]
October 27, 2023 1 min

Can We Say “Sayyidina” in Salat Ibrahimiyya during Prayer?

Answered by Ustadha Shazia Ahmad Question Should we say “Sayyiduna” during the al-Salat al-Ibrahimiyya (The Abrahamic prayer), or is it better not to do that? Answer Thank you for your […]
October 27, 2023 3 mins

Can I Marry a Married Man as a Female Revert Secretly without Telling My Guardia...

Answered by Ustadha Shazia Ahmad Question I am a Muslim revert of only 3 years. My parents are atheists, but I have a biological uncle who lives abroad, and he […]
October 27, 2023 2 mins

Which Testification of Faith Would a Convert Say?

Answered by Ustadha Shazia Ahmad Question I have seen on websites, two versions of the Shahada: “Ash-hadu Al-laaa Ilaaha Illa-llaah Wa-Ash-hadu Anna Muhammadan ‘Abduhoo Wa Rasooluh” and “Ash-hadu Al-laaa Ilaaha […]
October 26, 2023 3 mins

Can You Help Me Function Normally in My Life Again?

Answered by Ustada Shazia Ahmad   Question have no motivation, I have lost it, I have no energy, I can’t do anything, I can’t pray, I can’t study, I can’t […]
October 26, 2023 3 mins

I Ruined Someone’s Marriage. Do I Ask Her for Forgiveness?

Answered by Ustadha Shazia Ahmad Question About 12 years ago, something happened with a girl that I wanted as my second wife, but I can’t get over the guilt. We […]
October 26, 2023 5 mins

How Should I Deal With My Horrific Marriage?

Answered by Ustadha Shazia Ahmad Question I have been married 14 years in a turbulent marriage, due to discovering my husband’s pornography tendency and clubbing. He always lies and is […]
October 25, 2023 2 mins

Is the Cap and Gown One Wears for College Graduation Haram?

Answered by Ustadha Shazia Ahmad Question Is the cap and gown one wears for a high school or college graduation haram? Many sources I’ve seen in the past have said […]
October 25, 2023 3 mins

What Happens When I Joke about Islam Unknowingly as a Pre-teen?

Answered by Ustada Shazia Ahmad Question When I was 11 years old, I joked about Islam. However, I did it unknowingly, as I was still learning. I had already hit […]
October 25, 2023 3 mins

Can I Secretly Marry My Fiance of Seven Years to Avoid Sin?

Answered by Ustada Shazia Ahmad Question I am a Muslim girl and have been engaged for a while to the man I love. We talk and meet and our parents […]
October 25, 2023 3 mins

Is It Permissible for Me to Move Out of the House with My Mother?

Answered by Ustada Shazia Ahmad Question My father has been mentally abusing my mother all along their married life. Since my childhood, I have witnessed frequent fights, foul language and […]
October 24, 2023 2 mins

Does It Count as a Khuff If You Put On Multiple Socks?

Answered by Ustada Shazia Ahmad Question Does it count as khuff if you put on multiple socks? Answer Thank you for your question. Putting on multiple socks doesn’t count as […]
October 24, 2023 1 min

Is Abdul-Nasser Correct to Keep as a Name?

Answered by Ustada Shazia Ahmad Question Is Abdul-Nasser Correct to Keep as a Name? Answer Thank you for your question. This name is permissible to use, as Allah has mentioned […]
October 23, 2023 2 mins

Is One Allowed to Consensually Degrade or Insult a Spouse during Intercourse?

Answered by Ustada Shazia Ahmad Question How to talk to your partner during sexual intercourse? Is it allowed to insult and degrade your partner at his or her request if […]
October 23, 2023 1 min

How Should One Go About Choosing a Wife in Islam?

Answered by Ustadha Shazia Ahmad Question How should one go about choosing a wife in Islam? Answer Thank you for your question. May Allah reward you for asking this very […]
October 22, 2023 3 mins

Will Allah Forgive Me for Being Angry at My Family for Their Bad Treatment of Me...

Answered by Ustadha Shazia Ahmad Question I am a young Muslim, I pray and fast and go to the masjid. I feel like a bad Muslim because of my mental […]
October 22, 2023 2 mins

What Is the Minimum We Should Do for Our Parents Since We Are Not Very Close?

Answered by Ustadha Shazia Ahmad Question What is the bare minimum in relation to being good to one’s parents? I have siblings who live out of town and visit only […]
October 22, 2023 2 mins

What Can I Do to Convince a Muslim Man’s Parents to Let Me Marry Their Son?

Answered by Ustadha Shazia Ahmad Question I would like to convert to Islam and get married to this Muslim man, but his parents don’t allow him to be with me […]
October 22, 2023 6 mins

Was I Sinful for Hiding from My Mom That I’m Studying Islamic Subjects?

Answered by Ustadha Shazia Ahmad Question My mom asked me what I was doing, and when she asked if I was studying Arabic, I said no. Then I said I […]
October 22, 2023 2 mins

Can You Please Tell Me How to Overcome My Doubts about Istihada?

Answered by Ustadha Shazia Ahmad Question I have hardship and baseless misgivings about my prayers.  I know the ruling that one with istihada has to clean herself, perform wudu, and […]
October 22, 2023 3 mins

Should I Tell a Girl That I Stopped Talking to about Marriage That It May Not Wo...

Answered by Ustadha Shazia Ahmad Question I approached a girl for marriage during college, and we both spoke to our families to inform them that we wanted to move forward. […]
October 22, 2023 2 mins

What Are the Best Ways for a Teenager to Spend Her Free Time?

Answered by Ustadha Shazia Ahmad Question What are the best ways for a teenager to spend her free time, and what are some recommended readings? Answer Thank you for your […]
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